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Originally Posted by ruri  This bitch sounds crazy. |
Let me mention, as someone who dated similar: this bitch IS crazy. I'm sorry, but here's a fun test.
1) Have you known the person a while before they mention having been raped? (Let's say a month minimum.) If no? Step 2. If yes? Well, I can't accurately diagnose if crazy or not. Waiting probably means they didn't want to mention it up front until they knew if you were a decent enough person to be around.
2) How fast DID it come up? If it was a week waited, you might be safe, there's still a chance that she was getting it out of the way fast to see how you react. But the problem I see is...
3) Does she appear to be trying to make this YOUR burden? And I know this sounds horrible, but that's what it looks like to me. Now. I'm not saying that you need to flee or anything. I will say, however, that you need to be ready, because you might be getting yourself into some shit with a potentially unbalanced individual. If at any time, you find yourself going "Okay, this is a little (fucked up/trippy/frightening)", step back, look at how things are going, and contemplate breaking it off, or at least putting a small amount of distance between you two.